US- I may getting scammed by a girl from Ecuador.

Hey everyone, im a 25m who has almost no experience in dating at all. I’m physically disabled and very socially awkward and shy, unless I really know the person I’m talking to. Anyway about 2 months ago I matched with this girl from Ecuador on Facebook dating. This wasn’t uncommon because I’ve swiped on profiles from South America before.

But this girl she seems interested in talking with me. Since then, we been chatting on instagram daily and have really formed a connection. We haven’t defined anything as of now. But we flirt and send each other romantic reels and sweet messages. She says she wants to come see me and have dinner and to cuddle l with me and all this. It seems like she’s saying all the right things, but she has said for a while that she plans on coming down when she finishes university in a year and a half at the earliest. She is pretty but she’s not you know like an only fans model or supermodel. So I doubt, two months in, she’s gonna ask me to subscribe to her only fans or Snapchat premium.

However, my friends, family and I just worry that she’s gonna ask me for money or try and take advantage of me. Or she is going to want take her away from Ecuador and have a life in the US. The reason I’m posting this is because in the past month, we have gotten a lot more flirty and she keeps saying that she wants to come see me and stuff but that’s that’s all she says. I understand she can’t just hop on a plane and come see me, but it almost seems like it’s all talk now and she is just telling me what I wanna hear. If any of you have any advice, please let me know. I’m a hopeless romantic in a wheelchair who has never dated anybody.😂 so I’m clueless. I’m not in love with her but I guess just like the attention and when she flirts with me.

Edit- we have sent audio messages and pictures back and forth, but we haven’t done a video call as of yet. Though she has mentioned that she would like to do one soon.

Edit 2- I think it’s worth mentioning that She’s attractive but not super model gorgeous or anything. she’s not sending pics with her ass out or anything. So I’m not getting scammed but an OF model or anything like that I don’t think.