[US] I believe I received a spam text message but bf thinks its something else…

Hello. I received a text from a random number today and I’m pretty sure it is one of those phishing/“pig butchering” type text scams but my bf unfortunately thinks its a cover up for something else I’m doing behind his back (its absolutely not and its stressing me out so bad.) The number is one I do not recognize, have never called or texted before, and did not answer when I tried to call to prove it to him that I have no clue who it is. But then I was looking online and came across some reddit posts in this community that were pretty similar, almost identical to the texts I got. Has anyone else gotten this kind of text, and is it a scam? Please share your own experiences and how else can I prove this is one of those phishing things? All replies appreciated!